My wife Karen , out of the blue says she wants to start swinging. She tends to be very driven, and usually gets what she wants. I asked her why she wants to do that. She tells me she feels it will spice up our relationship, she thought our marriage was getting stale. I am not sure how I even got her to date me let alone marry me.
For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable. But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club. Not all experiences were percent pleasurable, so we made an effort to have those conversations and keep the lines of communication open.
I hope everyone is on track to crushing your goals for ! When I first heard the term "swingers," it was on a talk show and I thought it was a crazy concept, like you might as you are reading this. However, before bashing swingers, listen to how it could benefit some of you. Swingers are couples or singles who choose to have an open relationship, allowing their partners to have sex with other people, with their permission, of course.
Verified by Psychology Today. The Swinging Paradigm. I hear this often from people who know of my research with the swinging population, which they consider deviant and suspicious. I have compiled hundreds and hundreds of hours of interviews with couples in the swinging lifestyle, and one of my first questions is how did the couple get involved in the swinging lifestyle, and how is the wife handling it. Moreover, did the wife have a choice in the matter, or did she just go along to please her husband?