When I was 11 years old, my mother silently snuck into my bedroom. Under the cover of midnight, she sat cross-legged at the end of my bed and proceeded to give me The Talk, although it was more of a whisper. Instead of focusing on the anatomy of sex — the biological prophecies by which, some say, our bodies were made to meld into one — my mother chose to emphasize pleasure. She spoke about the importance of passion: pursuing it, asking for it and finding it within yourself. Society has a tendency to perpetuate this idea that the older a woman grows, the more she yearns for the beauty of her youth. It was once bewildering to me that my mother could be so candid about sex.
These Are the Men Who Love Sleeping With Older Women
Whenever you hear about men dating older women, it's often talked about like it's a way to "mix things up" sexually. Robinson moment. But surely plenty of those men exist. I only had one friend with benefits after that who was six years older then me.
What It's Really Like to Be a Guy Who Only Dates Much Older Women
I never thought of myself as the one-night stand type. Serial monogamy, yes — a threesome, sure. But a one-night stand just because?
A man who's had experience dating and having sex with older women is likely to remember it as some of the best sex of his life. Not only that, but younger men and their future partners continue to benefit from these encounters later, when the guys in form healthy, long-term relationships with women closer to their own age. On the other hand, some men find what they initially thought was a fleeting attraction to "cougars" ends up becoming their "type. After all, once you've learned how to have great sex from a cougar, you'll be hard pressed to find a better tutor, mate or lover.