Ok, so this man was 20 years older than me, which may seem like quite a stretch but we were just suited to one another. He was married but no longer with his wife, instead of going through the divorce process they just decided to stay married and friendly with one another. He was totally honest with me from the moment we met inside an upmarket bar in the centre of the city. We talked for ages sitting on the high bar stools and straining to hear one another over the music. As the night went on we decided to head back to his apartment, it was a bright apartment with an amazing open plan design.
This is the fifth in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. Anal sex is pretty polarizing. No one is going to force you to try anal, but there are a few compelling reasons to give it a go:.
More young women than ever—45 percent—are trying anal, according to the latest research from the Kinsey Institute. If you're considering having anal sex for the first time, you're probably wondering how to prepare, relax, and enjoy the intimate moment with your partner. We called in the experts: Rachel Needle , Psy. The last thing you want to be before attempting anal is tense. If this is your first time trying anal sex, spend some time relaxing—take a hot bath, ask your partner to give you a sensual massage, heck, you can even meditate.