My wife and I began dating when we were teenagers and then I left on an LDS mission a few years later. When I left, our plan was to wait for each other and get married when I got back. My wife ended up breaking up with me the last two months of my mission. When I got back I found out from other people that my wife had been dating around the entire two years, and was even sleeping with other people we never had sex for all the years we dated.
Trouble with letting go of my girlfriend’s sexual past
Trouble with letting go of my girlfriend's sexual past - Ask the Therapist
User Name Remember Me? After sixteen years of marriage and two children, only in the last six weeks has my wife opened up to actually talk with me about anything except everyday stuff. Should you be curious about what prevented communication and what I did to make it happen, there's another thread about that. The talking has been going well. I always wanted it and now it's going feel I have no choice but to try to know her mind on everything under the sun, else risk being blindsided again.
How Much Do I Need to Know About My Potential Spouse's Sexual Past? My Response
Hi, I am a student who goes to Texas A and M University and I met the most amazing woman of my dreams about 7 months ago. She is everything that I could want in a wife, but she has a past that I have been struggling with ever since we started dating when she told me everything. I know I was meant to love this woman, but I am tired of her past still bothering me. It is not fair to my girlfriend or myself for her past always bothering me.
Because of my strong belief that sex is a gift of God that is meant to be experienced only within marriage, I made it clear to all the women I dated that I would not marry someone who believed in having premarital sex. At the age of 23, I met the woman of my dreams. I made it clear to her that I would not marry someone who had had premarital sex.