While others are attracted to looks, intelligence or personality, some men prefer dating older women. They likely have their life together. Mature women have their own careers, set of friends, and things they are passionate about. We stopped trusting that men would show up and be the loving partners we wanted and needed. Mature women have a strong sense of self, which means they are self-assured. They take full responsibility for their own life, which eases the pressure off of you as their partner.
Dating older women might look like going off the beaten track. Many people think it is an extraordinary practice, but we claim it might be a life-changing experience. Just recall all those stereotypical images of the famous couples we see daily — the pure mature men and a young lady near him.
Many older single women spend a lot of time looking for an attractive, kind, older, single man. Others say that older men are only interested in dating women one third their age. But, after talking with dating coaches David Wygant and Lisa Copeland , it occurs to me that women our age may be just as biased against older men as they seem to be against us. Is it really realistic to believe that we will find a year old man that dresses well, is financially independent and who loves spending time at the gym?